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About Jess Ahlum

Coaching 

Relationship coaching focuses on what's good with the people we love and how to get past the inevitable daily miscommunications that arise. The interactions we have with Self and others unfold on a moment-to-moment basis. Maintaining health and balance within these ever-changing dynamics requires skills of reflection and meaning-making. As your coach, we will use scheduled time together to focus on areas and plans for growth. To reinforce healthy habits and quickly get back on track when life is happening, I am available for real-time texting and e-mail correspondence as part of your coaching support. 

Philosophies, theories, and ways of thinking

Pre and Perinatal Health 

Pre and perinatal health and psychology focuses on the time from conception through a baby's 1st birthday as the foundation for lifespan growth. I'm passionate about providing a continuity of care to young families. When nurtured, this critical time can positively shape generational health through epigenetic change.

Marriage and Family

Marriage and Family studies have identified key elements in healthy, happy families. These are things you and your partner can cultivate, thereby building secure attachment and forging positive family dynamics by breaking old family patterns. 

Internal Family Systems

We all have an inner "cast of characters" that contribute to our success and limitations. It's empowering to know and build healthier relationships with these (often competing) parts. I can help you connect to core values, drive your success, and rewrite your narrative with your best parts in place.

My qualifications

I offer a developmental, neuro-relational, mind-body approach that addresses the underlying causes of parenting, partnership, and personal development struggles so you can move forward. Here are some of my educational highlights:

  • Master Of Arts, Clinical Psychology, Pre And Perinatal Psychology
  • Bachelor Of Science, Human Developmental And Family Studies, Adolescent Development
  • National Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach
  • National Board Certified and NC state-licensed massage and bodywork therapist LMBT NC#6879
  • MNRI Core In Training (Masgutova Neurosensory Motor Reflex Integration)
  • Early Relational Health, U Mass Chan Medical School Fellow
  • Duke Integrative Medicine Certified Integrative Health Coach
  • Certified Instructor of Infant Massage, Infant Massage USA
  • Certified Infant Sleep Educator, Bibo Mia
  • Certified Circle of Security Parenting facilitator
  • Yoga Instructor 200hr

My Why

We would do anything for those we love. We would take their pain away if we could. Over time I've learned that the best thing we can do for others is to take care of ourselves. 

People ask 'Jess, how did you get into this work?'

Seeing my own family members struggle, and wanting everyone to be happy, I decided at a young age that I wanted to be some kind of professional helper to parents.


Understanding what drives people, what shapes our mental health and self-concept, and how to make lasting changes toward a more fulfilling life has always been my mission. The world needs people who are committed to bringing positive change and doing their own relational work. 


I love studying theories of change and consciousness and am fascinated by babies and family dynamics. I have had the opportunity to be in multi-disciplinary spaces working within research labs and hospital settings; inpatient and outpatient mental health and substance abuse treatment facilities; spas and retreat centers; medical offices, corporate wellness settings, and experiential therapy programs. The more I learn the more I see there is to reflect on and be curious; this pushes me further in my lifelong learning journey. 




Thank you for taking the first step!

Reaching out is a brave decision, and we commend you for taking this important step. I sincerely appreciate the time and thought you've invested. Here at Jess Ahlum, we're committed to providing you with the support and guidance you need. We'll review your responses carefully and reach out to you soon to discuss the next steps, ensuring a journey that's tailored just for you.


We're here for you, every step of the way.


Jess

Relationship coaching for happier kids, couples, and Self.

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